Intimacy Defined

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Dictionary Definition: a close, familiar, and usually affectionate or loving personal relationship with another person or group.

Reality: The state of opening your mind and heart to another human being revealing all of your insecurities, fears, desires, wants, needs, with the knowledge and expectation that you will be safe, nurtured and loved for who you truly are. The act of opening your heart to expose yourself to the possibility of heartache, knowing it simply won’t happen.

As a triad, we have a type of intimacy that is rare, and non-judgmental. We nurture, support and love each other. There is a general feeling of being wanted, needed and loved. We may disagree, we don’t argue. Listening and communicating are required, demanded and appreciated. Daddy leads us but he follows the same standards which he has us follow. We all respect, trust, appreciate and show gratitude daily. We never take for granted anything that we do with or for each other. Our hearts are opened wide, risking hurt and pain, with the knowledge that we will be safe. It is as if none of us have been hurt, (that is simply not the case, we have all be extremely hurt in love and life) and we never assume that this is something to be taken lightly or to be discounted. The security of knowing your best interest is always at the forefront of everyone’s mind and heart is simply amazing. Kindness, consideration, respect and compassion are what causes us to be secure in our intimacy. We know our pain, and try to heal it. We know our insecurities and calm them. We know our deepest inner fears and never use them against each other-that would be counterproductive. Pain for one means pain for everyone.

Our intimacy carries through in our sexual acts but it is the intimacy in our hearts that allows our sexual intimacy. We show our love and passion to each other because we have such a close relationship. Sex is not our goal, it’s the result of our bond, our deep and loving intimacy.

I couldn’t think of two better people in my life which I would want to share my heart, my mind, my fears or my insecurities with in this life. My heart is safe, my mind is secure and calm, because for maybe the first time in my life, I have found true intimacy.



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