I have thought long and hard about answering this question. Is my submission to daddy a gift to him or is it who I am? I would have to say in my own personal experience, it’s who I am. My submissive nature is here, regardless if I have a daddy or if I have my daddy or if I have no daddy. I am always trying to make people happy; at work, at home, my friends, my family, my sister, Kitty and most of all my daddy. So for me personally, I have to say, it is simply who I am, but it is something that pleases my Daddy as well. I am his submissive and I am his submissive because I am Submissive. So for me, it’s just who I am, but it makes me a good fit for Daddy. It allows me to serve him, feel fulfilled and please him.
I know it’s not that way for everyone. So I think it’s definitely a personal thing. I believe some submissives are not just interested in pleasing everyone, (which is impossible, anyway and not something I recommend for anyone to try!) Now, that being said I do believe that the levels of submission are also different for everyone. I am sure that each and every submissive is different. We have certain similarities, or desires, but the intensity of our submission maybe different. Everyone has differnt limits and different ideas about what submission is. I look at submission as something I do for me, as much as for my Daddy. I don’t feel complete if I am not serving some need of Daddys. I feel lost if he is not happy and I am not pleasing him in some way. My way of serving is what he desires, so my submission is truly for Daddy and for his pleasure.
That being said, my submission is not your submission. Your dominant or potential dominant may not agree with my form of serving. He may desire something I cannot possibly give him. We all have to find our perfect match. I once heard there is a “lid for every pot.” I believe if you look hard enough you will find your perfect match. It may take time. Most of all it will take you understanding yourself and how you desire to serve. Before you even look for a submissive or a dominant, you have to know how you desire to serve them or have them serve you. You have to know who you are first.
Kitty and I, both serve Daddy. We are quite different in our submissive ways. It doesn’t mean I am right and she is wrong or she is right and I am wrong. What is important is we both meet Daddy’s needs. And we meet those needs as best we can. So when we don’t do that to the best of our own unique abilities, we feel like we have let him down. That is when I am at my worst; when I have let Daddy down in any way. I simply feel out of sync with the world and most of all within myself.
So when you are wondering if it is a gift to submit, I believe it depends on you. Daddy may see my submission as a gift to him, but indintbthink if it as a true gift from me. It is simply who I am. It is a gift of the universe or heaven’s above that we happen to match each other’s Dominant and submissive needs. I am his submissive and he is my Daddy Dom. So Daddy gives me the gift of his dominance and I respond with my submission. He is my ying. I am his yang. One is not truly complete without the other. It is our special bond and it’s obvious to anyone who knows us. It’s our very special, very unusual relationship.
I love you, Daddy, I love our special bond. It’s my privilege to be able to serve the one man I think is worthy of my submission. I can’t think of a better man or one who deserves to be loved as much as my Daddy. And I do love you with all my heart.
I Love you, always and forever,